December 14, 2016 (Wednesday)

December 13, 2017

Yesterday I picked up a couple of books at the library, one a recommendation by R.: Will I Ever Be Good Enough? by Karyl McBride. It’s subtitled, “Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers.” I don’t think my mother was terribly narcissistic (although others would beg to differ). She had mental health disorders, certainly, some of […]

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December 13, 2016 (Tuesday)

December 12, 2017

Another one of those off-kilter mornings where I don’t have enough time to fit in both the things (meditation and writing) along with reasonable morning sociability before W. heads out, so I opt for meditation followed by sociability, and since the sun is out on this crisp morning, I walk with him to the station. […]

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December 12, 2016 (Monday)

December 11, 2017

When I went downstairs this morning, it was still pitch black. There was some snow on the car, but it’s raining – just raining – heavily now. A few houses have lights on, the bright glare of a street lamp on the street below is slowly dimming it seems, or else it just appears that […]

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December 11, 2016 (Sunday)

December 10, 2017

A mother worries about her children. What’s new?

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December 10, 2017 (Saturday)

December 9, 2017

Before bed these days I’m reading a few pages of Camille Paglia’s Sexual Personae. A couple of nights ago I finished the chapter on the Italian Renaissance: Donatello, Botticelli, Leonardo, Michelangelo. I get what she’s on about with the anti-Chthonian, pro-Apollonian “western eye,” its drive to elevate the individual from out of the muck of […]

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December 9, 2017 (Friday)

December 8, 2017

Something just occurred to me …I never owned a Tamagotchi, but it seems that that toy softened us up. I thought about this when I realized how I tend my iPhone. It’s always a concern: is it on, is it receiving, are there new messages, should I be checking it, is there anything I should […]

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December 8, 2017 (Thursday)

December 7, 2017

A cold front is heading our way tomorrow but especially Saturday. It’s cold today, too: white frost coats the roofs. And already the difference the insulation makes that we had blown into the home office walls last week is quite immense. It literally feels like the room has a coat on, and isn’t standing in […]

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December 7, 2016 (Wednesday)

December 6, 2017

Who are we writing for? Someone I’m Facebook friends with got into another flamewar with one of his Facebook friends over politics. The FOAF-person who posted the original article which offended my Facebook friend then wrote (but sadly, deleted) in his defence of having posted an opinion perceived as controversial by my Facebook friend that he […]

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December 6, 2017 (Tuesday)

December 5, 2017

The other day I read this piece, which had been highlighted in Arts & Letters Daily, describing the rather obtuse criticism Lionel Shriver got for her Brisbane talk about “cultural appropriation.” In particular it was about this article a young Somali-Australian woman wrote in The Guardian, which detailed her trauma at having to listen to Shriver. […]

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December 5, 2016 (Monday)

December 4, 2017

When I got up this morning the sky seemed still and very dark, no sun visible. By the time I sat down to meditate, I was just in time to catch the start of today’s snowfall. For the past 25 or 30 minutes the snow has been falling, continues to do so still, and sidewalks, […]

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